Anonymous asked: I found you through Conversations with Girls, and I was wondering.. What do you do to get over a break up? Im having a difficult time with mine.

Terrible question for me because I can’t seem to escape my emotions.  I can never trick myself into believing the mantras that usually help people move on (“You can do better. You deserve it all. He was no good.”).  I know how I feel and I know that I have to live through each step, to feel the low points, to really be over shit. Some dudes took a week and some took years to be over. I just know to not let the feelings direct my life. Each day is different and I just let them all be so. I listen to music, the real heavy corny heartbreak stuff on every album that I never listened to before lol. I let my sadness live in songs, not in me. We’ve only got each other in this world and it’s hard to let go of the good ones you find. But I just try to stay active and focused on all my other goals. 

Hope that helps. You’ll be onto bigger things soon enough.